Do you really LOVE your life? If its going to be your ideal life you better LOVE it.
Welcome back to another day in living YOUR ideal life series. I hope you learned yesterday that its important to not always be in a hurry. To enjoy the ride, well today it may seam like we are quoting a Beatles song. Well its just another of the steps to help you find your Ideal life.
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE
This life was meant to be loved, I tell people all the time to Live, Love and Rock on. No matter what you are going through, love your life. Maybe not the struggle that you’re facing, but the life you are living while you struggle.
Love the people that are in your life at this time. I find that every few years I seem to have a new batch of friends. I don’t hate my old friends, it’s just that our lives are now lived in a different place. Five years ago I was going through rough times. The struggles I faced and the hurt I was in are things people commit suicide over. I tell people how in my own life I have fought depression for over 18 years. I still refuse to take a pill to make me happy, and there have been times I have thought about ending it all. Yes I had to deal with thinking that many times. But I decided that I was going to beat it and learn to love my life, no matter what I am going through. I am going to love the friends I have while they are in my life. When our lives move to different places I will still love them, but it will be time to move forward in my life, as I hope they are also doing.
In my life I’ve had the loss of separation more then once. I’ve gone through tough a divorce. I’ve lost “the love of my life.” I’ve moved away from my best friend. I’ve buried a best friend… We all lose. This should make us think of the good things we have and love them, not hate.
We all want to hang onto the past, its just part of how we are wired. From the good old days to the pains its all in the past. To often we get stuck in the past and we need to learn to live in the here and now. Learn to love the people that are in your life now. From clients to friends they have come and gone in my life. I am blessed to have shared the time with them while they were here. I hang onto the memory of the good time, love the laughs we had. Now its off to create more good times today.
Join us tomorrow as we learn to keep the things we have and let go of the things others have.
I’m Tim Gillette, the Rocker Life Coach. It’s time to live your dream, to love what you do and those you share life with. Get ready to be a RockStar in your world.